DON'T GIVE AWAY WHAT IS PRECIOUS
- Me Kelle
- Feb 15, 2021
- 4 min read
Honor the sactity of marriage and keep your vows of purity to one another, for God will judge sexual immorality in any form whether single or married.
Hebrews 13:4 TPT
Girl go let's go out...for me this was how it started. I went out with friends and even family members that probably wanted to escape from their own frustrations. I went out into a world that was filled with deperate and hurting people that did not understand my worth; at that time I did not understand my own worth.
The importance to save myself for marriage was uncomprehensive to me when I saw people that had sex and guess what they didn't die or have horrible ramifications; or what I thought was horrible. I did see one or two people mention they had gotten sexual transimitted diseases and distant people that had contracted HIV and AIDs. I thought God would come and strike them for living a life of sin, when I didn't see that happen I thought I was cleared from the aftermath of sin. I really did not understand the consequences; the damage to the self-esteem, spirit, mind and soul. In today's society we seldom speak of our emotions and feelings, it can be because after being hurt so many times we bury it never to look back at it or deal with it but it lingers and haunts us with every decision we make if we are not careful. It amazes me now how we look at being pure, honorable and obstaining from sex as taboo and frawned on.
Sex is not bad and is great when used at the right time with the right person!
My first sexual encounter happened after having many discussions with friends who had sex long before I did. I saw them as professionals and thought they understood what to do more than I did; but we were all too young to help, educate or direct each other. I never really had a conversation on sex outside of my friends, it was not spoken about at home other than not doing it. But I guess I was intruiged I had some understanding of God's word but I did not know how to apply it to my life or why I should not have sex. Remaining pure is reason to with-hold from sex; pure in your body from any diseases, pure in your mind from profanity (sexual thoughts) and pure in the sight of God (keeps you in right standing with God). This seems so minor but after having sex outside of marriage this brings spiritual death and a separtaion from you and God. What does this mean? When we want to connect, pray and be blessed sin can cause this to be harder for us. Sin within itself brings so many lies, torment and frustration that whatever experiences we've had can tarnish what God meant to be special between two people. I would lke to share a few lies the enemy tells us to keep or lead us into sin.
Everyone is doing it: that in order to fit in you will have to do the same thing
There is no other way: if you don't have sex you won't keep your relationship or this would be the only way for you to advance
You are not better than anyone else: if other people are doing it why would you not do it as well
Have you met someone that can lie so good and in the end you find out the truth? Would you trust that same person again? Well maybe you might give them another chance but on the third time wouldn't you approach with caution?
The enemies tricks are so enticing; like using a pretty woman to con you out of your money or using a bodybuilder to lure you into buying something you knew you didn't want. It all seems so beautiful but in the end it brings tears and heartache. God said he came to give us an abundant life, He said He knew us from in the womb and knows our hair count that is someone who knows you really well and has your best interest at heart. We are talking about the God that sent His son for you and me. You are worth so much more than just tossing your flesh to someone who does not want anythinng more from you than sex. Well there are some that may give you money, a good conversation and many leave us with kids that are being raised in a cycle that has already been worped (to grow up outside of the sactity of marriage). Lacking the importance of marriage, love and being committed. We honor what we admire and for a long time bad marriages (sin, immoral lifestyle and wealth) has been highlighted and admired.
Sin bring momentary happiness and prosperity but God brings peace and joy that no man can comprehend. When you make any decision ask yourself why you think you are making that decision and if it is contridicting the word of God. The enemy is an opposer, everything God has said will be questioned and changed to something that seems easier and quick. What has been a highlight for you in this message leave us a message and connect with us on YouTube.
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